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| Name | Mary in Michigan |
| Date | 2010-07-15 |
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| Message | There is no time limit on grief,don't let anyone dictate how or when or for how long you should grieve. Unless they've walked in your shoes, they have no right to tell you how to grieve. It takes time, time time.
My God this was your son, you gave birth to him, you watched him grow into the fine upstanding young man that he was. You just can't turn your love and feelings off just because he's no longer here, and if anyone thinks you can, or should, their nutso. His memory is all you have now, so keep it alive.
As for his last email to you, I'd copy it and keep it somewhere safe. In time you will be glad you did. I copied the last ones from my son and with the years that have gone by I'm now able to read them and smile. Oh Yes, a few tears drop too, but I'm more happy I saved the emails than sorry. Every little remembrance of my son that I saved I treasure today. You can never get another email from you son, but you can save this one.
Try not to go to fast through his material things, or give away things that some day you may regret. I have a neighbor that did just that....gave away things that she wishes she'd of kept. It's to late now, she can never ever get those things back.
At the time she thought by giving away his things her healing would come faster. That her tears would stop and her life would take on a normal type day. But it didn't work out that way, she now lives with regrets that she acted to fast.
HUGS and Prayers |