| Message | Bryce,
My wife of 15 years also came from a fundamentalist background. We met at a christian college in Illinois called "Greenville College"
15 years ago, she was forced to leave her home with nothing but the clothes on her back. She has rarely seen her parents since, and the few meetings she has had have been disappointing.
Nevertheless, she and I are very happy together, and MY parents have embraced her as their second daughter. I'm not saying that it's easy to live life out of the closet, Bryce. Nothing worth having is ever "easy". But, if you choose to live life denying who you really are, the price is even higher. You will never be truly happy, not even with your parent's love.
People are making this all about you and Travis, but it's really just about YOU. You and Travis may or may not work out... but you will always be gay, with him or without him. And that's okay, Bryce. It really, really is. You have a big, big family out there, and Travis is just one of the members!
We love you, Bryce! Stay strong! We are all pulling for you out here! |