| Message | Hey , whats up "Jody"( my lil brotha) and SexyJai , how are you guys ? I need ya help family ....I cant deal with the fact that my boyfriends babymama is all up in everything we do as a family , granted that they have three kids together and I understand that and I really try to be nice to this chick but she doesnt like me and now that he has asked me to marry him( which he never asked her ) I am truly getting worried about what I am getting myself into now .I love him and that wont change ,I love the kids too ,but no matter what I do she is all up in my space and I cant take that anymore , I had to hide that fact that we are getting married for the first 4months because he didnt want her to start trippin on me again , so what now , how do I keep the man and love the kids and be all that I can be in this family without her making me feel like I am less than included in everthing ? Do I listen to David (my heart and man ) and forget about her or do I listen to my girls and beat her ass so she will be scared of me ? help ya girl , my name is Jodie too  |