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Private Message added 2009-01-03 |
| Date | 2009-01-03 |
| Message | Hey Jude, I am glad to hear you are out of surgery but, so sad to hear about you being in worse pain than last time. I am glad you are going to ask for help now. YOU ARE SOOOO WORTH IT!!! I know a good trick to get yourself to be a better caretaker FOR YOURSELF. What you do is, you think of yourself like you would think of someone else. That's what I do. I think like..."What would I do if someone I loved felt this way?"...and then, I am more sympathetic TO MYSELF as a result. Then, I do for me what I would do if it were someone other than me, or I ask someone to do for me what I would want them to ask me to do for them. I hope I am explaining it correctly! It's just another trick I have - to get myself to treat myself the way I deserve to be treated. That way I can continue to strive to be the best ME I can be, and therefore, be stronger and more present in my life and able to give more to everyone I love. Really, the greatest gift you can give the people that love you, is to love and care for yourself as much as they love you. I know you know all this...these are just the things I say to MYSELF whenever I have realized I was 'putting myself last on the list' or not even on the list at all!! I miss you Jude. I wish there was more I could do for you than just leave you messages here. I wish I could take your pain and feel it for you....take it all...just like all the people that love you feel. Keep asking for help my buddy, reach out and lean on some people for christ's sake! |
Private Message added 2009-01-02 |
Private Message added 2009-01-02 |
Private Message added 2009-01-02 |
| Date | 2009-01-02 |
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| Message | Dear Judy, I am your dad's cousin. Today, as I was passing the phone, a voice in my head (yes, I do listen to them, well, I am from California), told me to call my cousin and wish him and his family a Happy New Year. John told me about your surgery and the fustration at every corner,in your recovery. I believe in non-traditional beliefs, as my mom, Anna, your Aunt, believed in them too. In the early Sp6ring, I became a level one practioner of "Reiki". If you don't know what is Reiki, it is natural hands-on energy healing art from Japan. I wish I could be there to help you with your pain, but all I can do is light my candles and send healing thoughts your way. I know you don't know me, as yet, but hopefully we can meet one day and get to know each other, because we are related and I think that is so cool. Take care and I will write to you soon, Ramona |
Private Message added 2009-01-02 |
| Date | 2008-12-31 |
| Message |  Hi Judy Q, More LaSota love comes to you and yours. We think of you and send all our weird and wonderful LaSota vibes, thoughts, energy to you and your family. Yes you can. Love, kay, Craig, and Sam |
Private Message added 2008-12-31 |
| Date | 2008-12-31 |
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| Message | Dear Judy, that is incredibly tough Much love and support Fiona |
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