| Message | First Family , I need your help ! Please help me out ! My boyfriend is Egyptian, and we have been dating for almost three years. He gave me a ring and he wants us to get married. His Visa expired last year, so in order to stay in the country, he married an American woman. I am applying for my citizenship now, so I couldn't help him stay. The woman he married seemed nice at first, and said she only wanted to help him out. He has been living with her for the last year, and she has become physically and emotionally abusive. She has three kids from three different men, and now she is telling my boyfriend that he has to support her with money and sex. I understand she needs money, but to expect him to have sex with her is crossing the line. His green card review is coming up in a month, and she threatened not to go with him, so he had sex with her. I love this man very much, and I see that he has gotten himself into a difficult situation, but I don't know where I fit in with all of this or what I should do. I lent him $15,000, which was all of my savings. And even though he works, he hasn't paid any of it back since he is giving this woman money. He still wants to marry me, and he comes to stay once a week. We talk several times a day. He is younger than me and a little naive in the ways of the world. I told him not to marry this woman, but he didn't listen to me. What should I do now , I dont want to leave him ? |