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| Date | 2008-05-17 |
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| Survivor? Loss and date | Best Friend sept1998 |
| Interested in our SR2H Survivors Newsletter? | yes |
| Message | This site is a great way to heal it takes time and support I am adding its link to my Depression lens on Squidoo and on my site for Depression information. I have lost several friends over the years to Depression then Suicide, It's sucks the life right out of you and if you don't get help and support you could be on your way to a life of Depression. Please Take Care of your mind,without the mind the body is nothing more than an empty shell. Thank You Chris Colby I have a lens on squidoo caled Defeating Depression please check it out |
| Date | 2008-05-15 |
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| Survivor? Loss and date | survivor husband 11/29/2007 |
| Interested in our SR2H Survivors Newsletter? | yes indeed! |
| Message | my best friend,lover,soulmate-husband-wonderful man-kind smart,etc--we'd been thru much 2gether-his disabled son died 9 yrs ago/me ill a long time due 2 working in 3 sick fedl office bldgs/huge medical bills/re-financing arm/i had gastric bypass 052907 lost most of my weight very quickly-we loved each other so much-i never married until 34 yrs old;i'm young/nice/pretty/loving/genius iq--so was he! but i'm losing my home/can't find work i've been thru hell-before him engaged to a maniac tried to kill me 11 times/beat me up i survived tha-my dad was great growing up retiring became alcoholic/he'd no self esteem-unhappy w/his life/himself-he came after me w/14" carving knife-i'm only sister-have 3 bro/parents still living-no not 1 even sent me a card/got 1 ph call-I'm holy spirit filled Christian/what is wrong w/people? i've always helped people,honest, good loving/but tough love/truthful/i'm so hrtbroken.pray for me.i'm too young to be a widow--so much we never got a chance to do. i'm not AFRAID to be alone/on my own since 19 my family/i've always been the 1 that lives in 'realityville' facing what I've had to face-so true whatever doesn't kill us makes us stronger.my husband lost his mind-hung himself w/fishing line//i found him. i did cpr too late/interrogated by homicide as if i murdered him-omg--i know ill survive this but what do i do w/rest of my life? can't find work/i loved being married at least to him/i'm unique-i need space yet miss being so cherished/lovedetc |
| Date | 2008-05-14 |
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| Survivor? Loss and date | survvior husband 11/29/2007 |
| Interested in our SR2H Survivors Newsletter? | yes |
| Message | I lost not only my husband/best friend/soulmate and companion but lost my step-son, who was like my son to an 'accidental' overdose but we knew it was suicide...in 1992 my favorite Aunt Edna, killed herself. They are not in their right mind or they make up their mind that they don't want to live. WE WILL NEVER EVER GIVE IN no matter how difficult moments of despair, missing them..their touch, voice, love, talking to, sharing with, etc. seeing them everyday just know that it will get better. we shouldn't beat up on ourselves or blame anyone that is a survivor of this event. Remember God is doing the 'footprints in the sand' & HE"s there always, no matter what. HE IS BIGGER THAN ANY PROBLEM WE HAVE. MAY GOD//JESUS BLESS YOU. KEEP ME IN YOUR THOUGHTS/PRAYERS. I AM LOSING MY HOME, CAN'T FIND WORK & LOST MY LOVE THAT I WAITED ALMOST 35 YRS TO FIND. HAVE BEEN THRU SO MUCH/NO FAMILY SUPPORT BUT I STILL PRAISE THE LORD...AND HAVE HOPE. GIVING UP IS NEVER AN OPTION. ''FOR LO I AM WITH YOU ALWAYS.' FOR EVERYTHING THERE IS A SEASON-A TIME TO MOURN, A TIME TO CRY/LAUGH...' THANKS FOR THE WEBSITE. REMEMBER THE GREAT THINGS ABOUT THAT PERSON... The final act is not the sum of who they were.... |
| Date | 2008-05-10 |
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| Survivor? Loss and date | 7-18-2007 |
| Message | I lost my boyfriend to suicide almost a year ago every one says time will heal all pain but mine only seems to be getting worse on july 18 10 days after my birthday he took his life...I just woke up and he was standin in the door way looking at me then came over say down next to me and put the gun to his head I will never understand why he choose to do that infront of me or why he would even do it at all.....I am glad to see that there is people to talk to when everyone else in the world gets sick of listening to me cry and talk about nick he was and will always be in my heart!! |
| Date | 2008-05-09 |
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| Survivor? Loss and date | my son Adam, Feb 3, 2008 |
| Interested in our SR2H Survivors Newsletter? | yes |
| Message | I found your site after reading "Surviving Suicide- Help to Heal your Heart" by Heather Hays, your story was very touching, and I felt very close to you. Adam was also my firstborn, only son. He was my world. I miss him so much, I can't imagine this getting any easier. Thanks for giving us mothers a place to go. Kim |
| Date | 2008-05-06 |
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| Survivor? Loss and date | 12/24/97 |
| Interested in our SR2H Survivors Newsletter? | yes |
| Message | Even after all these years is still feels like yesterday. I just kinda slipped it aside and never really dealt with everything. Went into a deep depression n stopped doing everything for almost year. Sat at my kithchen table n crocheted or did bead work daily...hubby did everything else. Finally forced myself to get up n move. Son left 4 beautiful daughters ( wife pregnant at time but didnt know it yet). He was born on xmas day in '66; excelled in school, was active in FFA and 4H. Scored in top 3% in asvab tests, could have done or been anything he wanted. He chose to be a chef and was very good at it. I blamed self, and still do for some things, and my other son (for just few secs). Last words he said to son who would not go to motel n pick him up were "tell my girls I love them and will see you in heaven". Am just now starting to get involved with support groups myself to deal with this n son still hasnt. |
| Date | 2008-05-01 |
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| Survivor? Loss and date | 12/19/2007 |
| Interested in our SR2H Survivors Newsletter? | yes |
| Message | My son committed suicide on the night of his birthday. He was born on the 18th, my husband found him the next morning. He had hung him self in our basement. On December 28, my husband's cousin did the same thing. I not sure how I feel, somedays I am just blue. My husband goes to a support group, but it's hard for me to talk around him without him jumping into the conversation. What's that song, I Want to Talk About Me. I know he's just as grief stricken as I am, but I just want to talk and try to understand how I feel. I have never been in support group. I always felt I could handle things myself. I try to keep things private. Today, I am not so sure. |
| Date | 2008-04-27 |
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| Interested in our SR2H Survivors Newsletter? | yes |
| Message | A friend informed me of this site. I am grateful for your help in providing a resource I can direct friends and patients to for additional support. Medically as a Family Physician I usually can listen and direct to grief counseling for additional help. Your site is a wonderful resource for all survivors. Thank you. Julie |
| Date | 2008-04-23 |
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| Survivor? Loss and date | my son 08-02-06 |
| Interested in our SR2H Survivors Newsletter? | yes |
| Message | It will soon be two years since Josh comleted his suicide. This second year has been worse for me than the first one. I think that is because during the first year I basically was in shock or something. Like others I miss my son so much. I have started attending a support group and it really helps. I just found this site today and it has alot more info than some of the others I have been on. I love the info on how to deal with holidays. I have a double whammy that time of year. Josh's birthdate is Christmas eve. I put on a mask because I do not want to ruin Christmas for my 16 year old she has suffered enough. I am thankful that this site and others like it are here. |
| Date | 2008-04-22 |
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| Survivor? Loss and date | my husband, April 11, 2004 |
| Interested in our SR2H Survivors Newsletter? | yes |
| Message | I have never done this, I mean joined an online group for survivors of suicide. I am finding it hard to move on still after 4 years. :( I have 3 kids who I have been taking care of and helping through this whole ordeal, so now that they seem to be doing better its time to help me. |
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