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| Date | 2009-01-19 |
| Message | P.II to my insightful-anonymous-friend, I just reviewed the entry I made and now I realise what type of elaboration-of-thoughts you were trying to induce in me. I did the previous boyfriend a SERIOUS disservice by being so involved for the wrong reasons. Now that I've come to the epiphany about my friendships, I can finally start pay genuine attention to a partner--instead of channeling my insecurity into false affection. Thanks again. You're very perceptive! |
| Date | 2009-01-19 |
| Message | Dear insightful-anonymous-visitor, <I>"...have you thought about the word that you used; 'suffocating'? Do you think there are more questions you need to ask yourself and more reflection needed?"</i> What I meant by "suffocating", is that I allocated (almost literally) all my time and effort into this sole relationship--disregarding the potential friendships around me. In other words...I smothered the poor bloke to an abnormal degree. It was a result of compensating my lack of strong friendships with an insanely dedicated relationship with my boyfriend. I suppose this would've looked similar to what happens with many fresh couples. They isolate themselves in "lala land". My relationships were more or less a never ending, nightmare-ish version of this. As far as reflection goes... I know that I channeled my insecurities in an unhealthy way, which prevented me from dealing with the insecurity directly. To be frank with myself, I royally screwed up the potential for a relationship void of ulterior motives as well. Thanks so much for your input... whoever you are. : ) |
| Date | 2009-01-18 |
| Message | I was in the same position when I was younger. Not exactly like you, but definately more acquaintances. As I aged, I began to reduce those to the people that I personally chose as good friends. Like you said, if you spread yourslef too thin, you wont have time for anything and no one will be close to you. But, it is psychologically more healthy (yes it is medically determined) that a few close relationships is much better than a lot of sparse relationships. And when you mentioned that you went back to your suffocating reltionship with your boyfriend after realizing you lacked close relationships with others, have you thought about the word that you used; 'suffocating'? Do you think there are more questions you need to ask yourself and more reflection needed? |
| Date | 2009-01-16 |
| Message | HDR! booyah! |
| Date | 2008-12-24 |
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| Message | hello my dear pookie patot:) i hope you have a merry merry xmas! |
| Date | 2008-12-23 |
| Message | Don't ever forget what love can be once you have truly found it :) 4 Love is always patient;13 love is always kind; love is never envious or arrogant with pride. Nor is she conceited, 5 and she is never rude; she never thinks just of herself or ever get annoyed. She never is resentful; 6 is never glad with sin, but always glad to side with truth, whene'er the truth should win. 7 She bears up under everything, believes the best in all, there is no limit to her hope, and she will never fall. |
| Date | 2008-12-22 |
| Message | yeah gimma a call we can catch up. |
| Date | 2008-12-16 |
| Message | wow love the new site~ very simple, clean and classy |
| Date | 2008-12-13 |
| Message | yo do u wanna like pick up ur cell phone or what man |
| Date | 2008-12-11 |
| Message | I like the new layout! You posted soo many new things wow. There was this one about how you were disappointed in beig mistreated and that someone had to 'end terribly'. Is it Lenn? |
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