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NameHeather
Date2008-06-08
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MessageI'm still waiting to hear if you burst into white light. *EG* I was starting to feel a smidge resentful and then realized that my sponsor said I don't ever get to graduate....does this mean that I'm in remedial Al Anon? LOL If you've achieved total enlightment I want the blueprint!! smilie


Namelong vowels
Date2008-06-05
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NameKelli
Date2008-06-02
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MessageI am glad you brought up the cancer and addiction comparison. I understand the preface behind addiction being a disease just as cancer is a disease. But, I don't understand how we can compare the two. My husband (an addict) knows what to do to reach recovery, but he is choosing not to do it. He will embrace the 12-step program. He is making a choice to be an addict. A cancer patient doesn't always have it so clear cut...most will try anything to be in remission, but they are not presented with a program to help their cancer into remission. How we can compare the two diseases...I understand your feelings exactly. All I want is an equal partner.....


NameJimi Sellars
Date2008-05-30
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MessageI really feel your pain.
I hope you find peace in the fact that it will take care of itself one way or another.
You a gifted writer, please keep it coming. You are helping more people than you think.

Jimi


NameMargauxMeade
Date2008-05-25
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MessageHi, I came across your blog through Woman Anonymous's blog. I, too, am dealing with my husband's addiction. Anyway, I found your post on triggers amazing. I'm just starting to understand my own triggers and how I act when I'm set off. It was comforting to read someone else's thoughts on the subject.

If you're interested in checking out my blog, go on over to loveinthetimeofaddiction.blogspot.com. Oh, and feel free to link to me if you'd like.


NameHeather
Date2008-05-16
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MessageAs an addict in recovery, I encourage you to continue to just take it one day at a time. I am living proof that there is hope for a major change when he reaches his time for change. I wish you love and support and would be thrilled to support you in these difficult times. Best of luck to you and your family! You'll be in my thoughts and prayers. Feel free to email me anytime with questions. I may not have the answers but I'm more than happy to share my experience. smilie


NameLast Chance Tex
Date2008-05-15
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MessageOh, honey. I'm glad to be at 2nd Road with you but I am really happy we both have our own forums, too. I love you kid. You're going to get through this.


NameSusan
Date2008-05-05
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MessageJust wanted to let you know you are in our thoughts and prayers as you are going through this very difficult time. The separation must seem very frightening right now but somehow you will find the strength. I am amazed at how strong I've been when I've had to be. Take care of yourself, keep writing, know that you have a gift.


NameKelli
Date2008-04-14
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MessageI will admit it...I am a blog lurker. I first found your blog in October 2007 when my husband went to rehab for cocaine the first time. I was hurting and struggling to understand why the people you love won't change. We have a 17 month old daughter together and have been together for 7 years. For the first 4 he didn't use. He is now actively using again. I love your blog...You write everything I feel. You have an amazing power with words. I love your post about wondering why if you love yourself you stay with him. I ask myself this quesetion everyday. Also, the post about JFK...great comparison. I seem to be in this situation now as well. Thanks so much for having the courage and power to write about your relationship with your husband. I am glad to know I am not the only one out there dealing with these feelings...



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