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| Date | 2008-07-07 |
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| Message | wonderful writing, touching. reminded me of my terrible, unhealthy though short marriage. he was not a junky but a - what? borderliner, manic-depressive, psycho... I dont know. He had many faces. All the scenes you described are so familiar to me. the yelling, the threads, distrust, the ego-trips and accusations. I was always wrong, he was always right... I got out of it finally. It was tearful, hurtful - cutting him out of my life felt like an amputation. but it was the only solution to get out of the co-dependence that destroyed my inner me. I feel so much better today, miss the good times sometimes but dont want to be back in this hell again. Keep on writing, stay as honest as you are with your self. Hugs A. |
| Date | 2008-07-06 |
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| Message | Dear JW, i stumbled upon your blog and can empathize with a little of what you're going through. I just left a partner who was becoming more and more controlling and angry toward me, although was not a drug user. If you haven't already done so, i HIGHLY RECOMMEND reading "Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men" by Lundy Bancroft. It might help you bring a new perspective to the situation. Pack a bag just in case and always make your safety (and your dog's safety, poor thing) your two highest priorities. Best of luck to you. |
| Date | 2008-07-03 |
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| Message | What a beautiful post (Dear Husband). You have such a way with words! |
| Date | 2008-06-30 |
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| Message | Hi JW, May you find joy, love and happiness. Your post is needed for the rest of us who are going through similar problems. It is very difficult when someone you love have problems that are taking over their life and they can't find a successful way to solve them. May you receive the money you need to pay your bills and have some left over for fun and to help others. God bless you and yours. cc |
| Date | 2008-06-27 |
| Message | {{{{hugs}}}}, lots of {{{{hugs}}}} |
| Date | 2008-06-24 |
| Message | Hiya. Just realized that I hadn't already signed in your guest book. Wishing you well.  |
| Date | 2008-06-22 |
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| Message | I found your blog from the Blogger's Choice Awards site. I admire your perseverance and dedication. Your husband is blessed to have you for a wife. I wish you well. |
| Date | 2008-06-17 |
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| Message | Just stopping by to let you know I so apprecaite your blogs, reading your thoughts on your life and your relationship. Thanks for blogging. Cat |
| Date | 2008-06-16 |
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| Message | I am not a big "reader of blogs". I am however, a big blogger. I just wanted to say that I love your writing! The way you describe your life, life with your husband, your ups and downs. Amazing!!  |
| Date | 2008-06-13 |
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| Message | Love, love, love your post about the job! And what you want to do to him because he won't get and keep a job. Yep, that's all I want too... is for him to go and get a damn job! |
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