The Junky's Wife has opened this forum for you to leave your comments about her posts, your experiences with addiction or living with addicts, or other topics that are relevant to the blog. If you are feeling cranky, snarky, snide, or otherwise unpleasant, that's ok, but the Junky's Wife would rather not be on the receiving end of your stuff. This is a moderated forum, so your unpleasantness will be deleted. Go pee in somebody else's sandbox...or better yet, find some help for that sandbox-pissing problem.
If you read something on her site that bothers you, or if this entreaty not to kick her while she's down bothers you, feel free not to read anymore. Thanks!
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| Date | 2008-11-15 |
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| Message | JW, you are good. God is watching you and He loves you. I haven't been in here as much as I'd like recently, but I have to sneak in and check on you and yours when I get a chance. Know that we, and the angels, are watching and looking out for you. XOXO  |
| Date | 2008-11-05 |
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| Message | You write the most beautiful and poignant words in the letters to your husband. They bring me to tears. I feel this way about my addict husband, but could never communicate the situation with the beauty that you do! |
| Date | 2008-11-04 |
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| Message | I just wanted to stop by and tell you that your honesty is only a small part of why I read your blog. Thank you for sharing! You are in my thoughts and prayers. |
| Date | 2008-10-15 |
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| Message | I am so proud of you for the tremendous amount of growth I am reading about! Wow, I've been away about a month, buried in my own shit, and you've been making such great strides in your program. You go girl! I know what you are going through right now is so painful and difficult, but you are letting yourself finally be more important to you than he is. That is so huge!!! I am happy for you. Hang in there! |
| Date | 2008-10-10 |
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| Message | Your post --the one about meditation---- "Then I thought of how awful it would be if my husband found another woman to take him in. I thought of the terrible betrayal and the heartache."----This is my biggest fear.----How will I get past that he may try harder to be a different person for her---that somehow he would love her enough to want to change himself. I know this won't happen---he is an addict. But the thought that there is there a possibility he may actually get and stay on the recovery bandwagon for someone else makes me sick to my stomach. After the 8 years I have invested with him to have someone else walk in and walk off with the man I want literally makes me sick. I'm so glad you share your life with us. You are a blessing to me! |
| Date | 2008-10-09 |
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| Message | You know I adore you. You know I am thinking of you. You know I want the best for you. And I know that it's right around the corner for you.  (waz up)Your Jay loving pal from the outlet mall. |
| Date | 2008-08-13 |
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| Message | Dear JW, Just happened upon this guest book while looking for your blog on a different computer than my own... I am so glad that I can let you know how much I admire you JW. You are an inspiration and I read your blog faithfully. Your excellent insights and your amazing ability to write about the complexities of what you and your husband are going through make me want to see this through with you. I want your love for each other to win out over everything. I want him to overcome his addiction and I want him to be well so that he can help pay the bills and lighten your load. I want you both to grow happily old together and put this nightmare behind you. So you see, someone is out here cheering you on and is always hoping the best for you. Why? Because I have not been able to make that happen for myself... The circumstances were not the same, but I recognize the love and the agony. Make it happen for yourselves. Please. Blessings, N. |
| Date | 2008-08-13 |
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| Message | Dear JW, Just happened upon this guest book while looking for your blog on a different computer than my own... I am so glad that I can let you know how much I admire you JW. You are an inspiration and I read your blog faithfully. Your excellent insights and your amazing ability to write about the complexities of what you and your husband are going through make me want to see this through with you. I want your love for each other to win out over everything. I want him to overcome his addiction and I want him to be well so that he can help pay the bills and lighten your load. I want you both to grow happily old together and put this nightmare behind you. So you see, someone is out here cheering you on and is always hoping the best for you. Why? Because I have not been able to make that happen for myself... The circumstances were not the same, but I recognize the love and the agony. Make it happen for yourselves. Please. Blessings, N. |
| Date | 2008-07-18 |
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| Message | My heart aches for you when I read your posts. I stayed in a bad marriage for 8 years...he was controlling, angry, and a few times, physically abusive. I would get called every name in the book. I was beaten down and depressed. Things ended painfully with his leaving me for another woman. With that being said, its like karma, or the universe, has come back to me a millionfold. I love my life now, I have a great job, cute apartment, new hobbies, and I have my heart back. I think you are much much stronger inside than you realize and I hope one day you can make the decision that is best for YOU. Much love and prayers! |
| Date | 2008-07-08 |
| Message | I love reading your blog...you feel like a friend in some weird way...I just hope that you don't water down what you say because of your husband's feelings. No one knows who you are in real life, or who your husband is. I understand his feelings, but it's not really violating privacy if it is anonymous. So please, keep writing. It brightens my day. |
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